Well, Happy Memorial Day! Many of us are lucky enough to have today off to spend with friends and family having picnics and enjoying the beginning of the "Summer" season. But, before we load up and head for the beach or fire up our grills, I'd like for us all to pause and reflect on the meaning of the day.
I remember as a kid this holiday being referred to as Decoration Day. It was a day set aside to remember our war dead and to decorate their graves. I remember how my dad would always wake up early and put our flag out on the front of the house and he would always talk to us kids a little about what the day meant and why we did what we did. My father is a U.S. Navy veteran of the Korean War and he has always taken very seriously his patriotic duty to honor those who gave their lives for this nation. He passed that sense of duty on to his children as well.
Here in Hesperia, we'll have our Memorial Day ceremony mid-morning. The American Legion color guard will be there along with the honor guard. They can't find 7 people to serve in the honor guard, so we generally have anywhere from a twelve to fifteen gun salute. The local Boy Scouts will present the colors and our high school band will play the National Anthem (albeit a little off key). The Legion Chaplain will say the blessing and a local veteran or politician will be the "keynote" speaker. The community choir will sing some patriotic tunes, and just before the honor guard renders the gun salute, the Chaplain will read the poem about Flander's Fields. Then one of the band members will play Taps (again, not always in tune). The small handful of veterans will then march (most of them will need to ride) to the river where taps is again played, the gun salute is given, and wreathes are laid on the water. The Legonaires then disperse to the two local cemetaries to complete the "Decoration Day" portion of the ceremony.
Pretty dull and boring stuff you're probably thinking. And, I suppose, for some it might be. But even though our simple ceremony will never be featured on the evening news, and PBS will never choose to do a special on it, and even though the band is slightly off key and we can't get a full 21 gun salute, it's important that we take this time to remember. This little ceremony means a great deal to many of the people in this area, and it means a lot to me as well. Try as I might, I'll not be able to keep the tears from flowing as I consider the sacrifices these brave men and women have made for our country.
So, enjoy your Memorial Day. Cherish the time to spend with family and friends and enjoy the bounty this Nation has to offer. But please take a bit of your day to attend your local Memorial Day observances. Say a prayer of thanks to those who gave the ultimate measure and maybe take a moment to shake the hand of a veteran or of one of our brave young men and women who are currently serving.
